Why is it that when I am insulted, I don't get offended or mad at them but instead I feel like I am wrong for being that certain way that allows them to insult me.
Like, for example
Person A says something bad about people who like philosophy
I like philosophy
so instead of defending myself or defending philosophy to Person A and arguing against it
I feel bad for liking philosophy
so I stay quiet and hope that if they find out that I like philosophy that they won't feel bad for saying something mean.
It's like instead of feeling bad that I was insulted I feel bad because if they find out they insulted me they will feel bad.
I DONT KNOW ITS JUST CONFUSING
And it makes it hard for me to be a person with feelings and opinions
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