WHY

Why is it that when I am insulted, I don't get offended or mad at them but instead I feel like I am wrong for being that certain way that allows them to insult me.
Like, for example
Person A says something bad about people who like philosophy
I like philosophy
so instead of defending myself or defending philosophy to Person A and arguing against it
I feel bad for liking philosophy
so I stay quiet and hope that if they find out that I like philosophy that they won't feel bad for saying something mean.

It's like instead of feeling bad that I was insulted I feel bad because if they find out they insulted me they will feel bad.

I DONT KNOW ITS JUST CONFUSING

And it makes it hard for me to be a person with feelings and opinions

Compromise

I hate when people aren't willing to compromise.

So, you want me to give everything up so you can get everything you want without making any sacrifices at all...right....

How hard is it to meet me halfway?